Helping Your Family Survive a Home Makeover An Author Interview
with Laura Jensen Walker, This Old Dump: Renovate Without
Decking Your Mate By Lisa M. Hendey
The Hendey family has been caught up in the home improvement
craze for years, but our children have gotten in on the act too
since becoming fans of one of those “home makeover” shows. So
when we took our teenager to pick out paint chips for his room
last summer, we shouldn’t have been surprised when he chose a
“moon rock” green hue, embedded with grains of sand and flecks
of glitter. OK...we invited his involvement in the project, so
we were going to have to live with the results!
What we didn’t think to do was to begin the room makeover with
prayer – as it turns out we could have definitely used the
guidance of the Holy Spirit! Had I read the new book by Laura
Jensen Walker, I would have approached this project and others
around our home with a little more wisdom and a lot more
patience. This Old Dump: Renovate Without Decking Your Mate,
(Revell, September 2004, paperback, 156 pages) offers fun and
humorous suggestions for surviving your home improvement
projects without destroying your marriage in the process. Laura
blends hilarious home improvement tales with practical tips and
solutions.
Laura Jensen Walker had the following comments on her book and
surviving renovation projects:
Q: Laura Jensen Walker, author of This Old Dump: Renovate
Without Decking Your Mate, it’s so great to have the opportunity
to share your new book with our readers! Could you please start
off by telling our readers a bit about you and your family?
A: I’m a full-time author and speaker and have been married for
over thirteen years to Michael, my wonderful “Renaissance-man”
husband (the man can do ANYthing—from sewing beautiful quilts to
reupholstering furniture to knocking down walls, putting up
fences, gardening, woodworking, cooking, painting, acting, and
singing—just to name a few.) In fact, the first time I saw him,
he was singing. Can you say smitten? I’m also a 12-year breast
cancer survivor (I was diagnosed the day after our first wedding
anniversary) who knows firsthand the healing power of humor.
Michael and I live in Sacramento, California with our
“canine-daughter” Gracie.
Q: People take their home renovations so seriously these days.
What was your motivation for writing a humorous book on the
topic?
A: To get people to lighten up a little. And to realize they’re
not alone in their home improvement horror stories. AND to give
them a reality check that it’s not like what they see on TV.
Their renovation will not be complete in 60 minutes. (Something
about not having Ty Pennington and 250 Home Depot workers to
help.) Most of all, to make them laugh rather than tear their
family members from limb to limb - or head to divorce court.
Q: What are the most important tips you’d share with families
considering taking on home improvement projects?
A: Be aware from the very beginning that every home improvement
project will probably cost at least twice as much as you thought
and take three times as long (and most likely require an
electrician.)
Flexibility is key. So is communication. Don’t be so rigid in
having to have your own way/the most beautiful home on the block
that you can’t adapt/adjust when things go wrong. (But along
those same lines, guys: as much as humanly possible, let her
have her way or you will pay.)
And women: Every man needs a room of his own (with apologies to
Virginia Woolf) and not just the garage. Let him have a space of
his own to decorate however he wants - whether it be
hunting/fishing chic, football frenzy, or gadgets galore. Just
be sure there’s a door you can close. (You get free rein in the
rest of the house, so don’t begrudge him his space. Besides,
that way you don’t have to have his sports trophies in the den.)
Q: Do you have any ideas for including kids in renovation
projects?
A: Our four-footed canine daughter doesn’t like whenever we
renovate/make changes around the house - she always runs and
hides under the bed. We tried to get her opinion on paint color,
but she wouldn’t tell us. With actual two-footed children who
can respond, ask their opinions, and depending on their age,
give them something to do (that doesn’t require scary power
tools) so they’ll feel part of the process too.
Q: Your book includes wonderful scriptural references at the
completion of many of the chapters. What role should faith take
in tackling projects around the house?
A: Prayer is essential. Daily. To help you get through the
stress and strain of renovation. And it helps to keep in mind
the big picture. There’s that old saying “Home is where the
heart is.” Your family is your heart and your home, given to you
by God. And they’re more important than any house. I especially
love the proverb (24:3): “By wisdom a house is built, and
through understanding it is established.”
Q: What’s your favorite story shared in the book?
A: That’s a tough one. It’s a toss-up between my Wisconsin
cousin racing to the bathroom and in her hurry not realizing the
carpenter was framing the window until she looked up and saw
this big smile on his face. Luckily, she had on an oversized
sweatshirt, so she figured she’d just pull her shirt down over
her knees and back out the door. Once out of his line of vision,
she pulled her pants up and her shirt down. Then she looked up
and there in the bedroom window was another carpenter with a
grin on his face. He thought she was mooning him! (I told her
that gives new meaning to worker’s compensation.)
The other story is of my friends Bill and Andrea. Andrea had a
hard time choosing a paint color for their dining room. She
thought she wanted green and selected her paint chip, then
bought a quart of paint and painted a small section. Of course,
the color was never exactly the same as the chip, but she kept
trying. Green after green after green. Then after visiting a
friend’s house who had a pretty taupe (dark tan for you guys)
color, she tried a couple variations of that. When Bill got home
that night, he took one look at the tan-and-green camouflage
wall and shouted “Get down!” then he made the sound of a machine
gun firing.
Q: Laura, thank you again for your time and participation in
this interview. Could you say a word or two about your previous
and future writing projects? Are there any additional thoughts
or comments you’d like to share with our readers?
A: I’ve written a total of ten non-fiction books so far, but the
one closest to my heart is Thanks for the Mammogram: Fighting
Cancer with Faith, Hope, & a Healthy Dose of Laughter. Another
one that was fun to write and came out this year is Girl Time: A
Celebration of Chick Flicks, Bad Hair Days & Good Friends. What
I’m most excited about, however, is that my first NOVEL will be
coming out in Spring 2005! It’s called Dreaming in Black & White
and is in the funny ‘chick-lit’ genre. (Like Bridget Jones’s
Diary, only if Bridget went to church. My website is
www.laurajensenwalker.com) Thanks so much for the interview! The
last bit of advice I want to share is: couples should never EVER
wallpaper together! (Talk about a straight shot to divorce
court.)
For more information on This Old Dump: Renovate Without Decking
Your Mate visit
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0800759672/catholicmomcom
Lisa M. Hendey is a mother of two sons, webmaster of numerous
web sites, including and http://www.christiancoloring.com, and
an avid reader of Catholic literature. Visit her at
http://www.lisahendey.com for more information.
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