One of the most commonly asked questions, What is Love? What is
its exact definition? Well, there can never be a definite
answer. Everyone got his or her own answer to it. To some it can
be really simple while to others, it can get really complicated.
But one definite thing that is for sure, everybody needs love.
It is a basic human need; we are not born into this world to be
alone. It has always been our natural instinct as human to reach
out to people, to be with and accepted by others. Consciously or
subconsciously, everyone is searching and waiting for that
special someone to appear in his or her life.
But where and when will this special someone appear? For all you
may know, he or she could be just nearby or even just beside
you. It all depends on fate a lot would say. Fate? Well fate is
again, something that cannot be explained, something that is
always so amazing. Think about it. Among the millions and
millions of people who could be out there, why is it that you
had somehow met your friends to later become the best of
friends? Got retrenched, feeling so terrible and disappointed
but to later find your love among your new colleagues in your
new job? Life has just suddenly become so beautiful? Well, this
is indeed a very true encounter of a friend of mine. Hmm…
thinking about it, isn’t there also kind of a fate between you
and me that you are actually reading this article right now?
Everything is like all so miraculously arranged, having a reason
behind every event that happened. Do you believe in fate?
Personally I definitely do. But again, are we really going to be
just sitting around doing nothing, waiting for fate to just come
by? Well, I wouldn’t think so. If you are not going to help
yourself, who is going to? Fate has always been around us. As
long as we are in places where there are people, presence it may
be. Many at times, it had actually been there but somehow we
just didn’t realized and cherished it when it was there. Sad to
know of it, isn’t it so? Well, sometimes we were just too
obsessed with our works, dreams and nevertheless too high an
expectation that we missed to see it, to cherish that someone
who was all along just beside us. It is only too late to realize
it now, an opportunity won’t drop by twice. Your happiness lies
in your own hand, don’t live your life a regret. I am sure you
wanna have a life that is so full of fond memories than with
tons of regrets, don’t you? Think about it.
Let us just open up ourselves shall we? Everyday is a beautiful
day, stop burying yourself with that tons of endless work. Make
time for yourself, reach out, make more friends, make new
friends, widen up your social circle, live a balanced healthy
social life. Make life enjoyable; you will see things in a more
different way. You might be going, “Hmm… why is it that all this
while, I have never noticed that she is actually such a pretty
girl.” Well, in fact this is how true love comes about. It
doesn’t always have to be a love at first sight, to be attracted
to his or her physical look. Sometimes it is through an initial
friendship, enjoying the companion of one another that along
time, you discover the beauty of his or her inner human
qualities, unknowingly falling in love with the person. Wouldn’t
this be a more beautiful and meaningful love than to a love at
first sight?
Remember, love has always been a game ever awaiting your
participation. Just as in life, it is a game of chance; if you
never try you can never win. Well if you did not find your love
today, be disappointed do not. It is just like missing the last
boat leaving the dock. There will always be another one to pick
you up the next morning? And always will there be.
Now, another boat is getting ready to set off soon. To the land
of great romance and opportunities it will sail. The question
is, will you board it?
About The Author: Rick Valens Staff Writer for
http://www.loveletterbox.com Love Relationship Discussion Forum
Currently also freelance writer for http://www.ecemetery.org
Monument of Eternal Memory
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