Dieters : Questions you must ask yourself when you want to lose weight

Now I know you're always asking yourself questions. You know the
ones like "Why can't I lose weight?" and "Why does everything
that's bad for you taste good?". But those questions won't get
you anywhere – except maybe helping you feel sorry for yourself
and setting you up for a spot of comfort eating.

A more empowering set of questions, on the other hand, will get
you off to a good start if you're about to begin a weight loss
program (or keep you on track if you're in the middle of a
diet). 

Here are the questions to ask when you want to give your weight
loss efforts a real kick start. 

Why do you want to lose weight?

Make sure your reasons for losing weight are clear. Do you want
to look good? Do you want to feel healthier? Has your doctor
given you a health warning? Do you just want to be able to run
around the park with your kids? Maybe all these reasons apply.
The more reasons you have for losing weight and the more you are
aware of them the easier it will be to remind yourself to keep
to your weight loss program when the going gets tough. Even
better, spend some time imagining how you will FEEL when you
succeed. This will do more than anything to increase your
motivation.

How much weight do you want to lose?

Set yourself a target. This gives you something to aim for and
you will be able to see how much closer you are getting each
week. You can never succeed if you don't know what the end point
is. "I want to lose weight" is not a measurable goal – you have
succeeded (of sorts) after you lose an ounce. Make your goal
specific with a target to aim for. 

What will you do to lose weight?

Nothing is going to change unless you do. So what changes are
you going to make? Will you follow a particular plan or just cut
down in general? How will you know if you're succeeding? What
exercise will you take (if any)? How will you make sure that you
follow your plan? What will you do about the things that might
get in the way? Vague ideas about losing weight need to
translate via a concrete plan into action. Ask yourself the
questions and decide what you will do.

Who will support you?

Some people will actively encourage you and help your efforts
while others will get in the way of your plans. Do you know who
your supporters will be? And who you will need to avoid or find
some way to deal with? Ask for the support you need from those
you think are most likely to give it or join a club of people
who are also trying to lose weight. These are available online
or offline. If you can afford it think about getting a coach –
all that focus on your success will work wonders. As for those
who are less than enthusiastic about your plans, think about
ways of handling them. Of course you'll need a different
strategy for close friends and relatives than you need for the
guy who brings cakes into the office and insists you eat one!

And the final question?

When will you start?

There's no time like TODAY. No eating the pantry empty before
you begin. Dump the junk food and get started right now!

Copyright 2005, Janice Elizabeth Small