*LIG
HT THAT BULB*
Copyright © 2005
Imagine you are entering in the dark room, what is the first
thing to do.......that's right, you turn a light switch on.
In order for the bulb to lit the switch has to be connected.
Without connection the circuit is called open or incomplete,
that bulb will not lit.
Just as in an open circuit where a bulb is disconnected from the
source so is the mind of a (Lon
ely Person) .
The true source of happiness or well being is disconnected from
that person.
The true source can not be found elsewhere but in the mind.
When people are in this state of mind they can not see anything
good because the circuit is open. There is no light to see good
things. Everything is dark, really dark.
Some people go out to look for somebody to fill the void but
ending up in disappointment because they can't see......
We need light to see right!
As we all know that the smartest thing to do is to turn that
light on by first re-examining ourselves, to look for our core
values .
what do we really like to do?
Do we like music, learning new things, what about our hobbies ?
Then we have to pull those good memories and use them to fight
against the current situation. These good memories will act as a
link to connect us to our source of love, friendship etc
There is a little trick to do this, it is the power of
imagination.
Einstein said, "imagination is more powerful than knowledge".
Now I know! I know!... there are some of you who say, "I can't
imagine". well, the truth is, we do imagination every day. If
you don't believe that, let me asked you, what color did you
wear yesterday?....... How did you know.............Don't tell
me you haven't imagined.
There is one fundamental mind secret that it can not distinguish
between the real experience and the pictures or imagination in
the mind. This is the reason why some people cry when they watch
a sad movie.
These people know for a fact that what they watch is not real
but their unconscious mind does not know and guess what they
weep.
We can use this to our advantage to trick our mind when we feel
lonely. Remember the time when you felt so strong emotionally,
may be you were so friendly or the time you archived your goals
etc.
See yourself in that situation, may be that laugh or smile from
your friends, just imagine........
How do you feel!
Imagine having the same experience right now,
Do that every day and your mind will be conditioned to have
those experiences.
Your bulb will start to lit, you will start to see the light and
that dark thing called *lon
eliness* will start to disappear.
sincerely,
Timeo Busyanya,
Helping individuals, improve their self image
*LON
ELYOU.COM* .
P.S Loneliness is just a state of mind
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